Friday, 23 September 2011

"A LETTER TO YOU FROM SATAN"

I saw you yesterday as you began your daily chores.
You awoke without kneeling to pray. As a matter of fact,
you didn't even bless your meals, or pray before going
to bed last night. You are so unthankful. I like that about you.
I cannot tell you how glad I am that you have not changed
your way of living. Fool! You are mine. Remember, you and I
have been going steady for years, and I still don't love you yet.
As a matter of fact, I hate you, because I hate God. I am only
using you to get even with God. He kicked me out of heaven,
and I'm going to use you as long as possible to pay him back.
You see, Fool, GOD LOVES YOU and HE has great plans
in store for you. But you have yielded your life to me and I'm
going to make your life a living hell. That way we'll be together twice.
This will really hurt God. Thanks to you. I'm really showing Him who's
boss in your life. With all of the good times we've had.....
We have been watching dirty movies, cursing people out,
partying, stealing, lying, hypocriting, fornicating, overeating,
telling dirty jokes, gossiping, backstabbing people,
disrespecting adults and those in leadership position,
NO respect for the church, bad attitudes:
SURELY you don't want to give all this up.
Come on, Fool, let's burn together forever. I've got some
hot plans for us. This is just a letter of appreciation from me
to you. I'd like to say "THANKS" for letting me use you for
most of your foolish life. You are so gullible. I laugh at you.
When you are tempted to sin, you give in. HA HA HA
You make me sick.
Sin is beginning to take its toll on your life.
You look 20 years older. I need new blood. So go ahead
and teach some children how to sin. All you have to do is smoke,
drink alcoholic beverages, cheat, gamble, gossip, fornicate,
and listen to and dance to the top 10 jams. Do all of this in the
presence of children and they will do it too. Kids are like that.
Well, Fool, I have to let you go for now. I'll be back in a couple of
seconds to tempt you again. If you were smart, you would run somewhere,
confess your sins, live for God with what little bit of life that you have
left. It's not my nature to warn anyone, but to be your age and still
sinning, it's becoming a bit ridiculous. Don't get me wrong, I still hate you......
IT'S JUST THAT YOU'D MAKE A BETTER FOOL FOR CHRIST.

P.S. - And if you really love me, you won't share this letter with anyone.

Sunday, 21 August 2011

How to keep a relationship last?


Scientist found out that romantic love involves chemical changes in the brain that last 12-18 months. After that, you and your partner are on your own. Love can absolutely last for a life time as desired to be maintained. Meaning, it’s both your choice.
Entering a relationship is not simple. Keeping it is a different story and it’s much harder. It may be a challenging part but it is very worthwhile and fulfilling. You know why? You don’t do it alone. The good thing about entering in a relationship is that there is someone you can work with. And the best part is it is someone you love.


Here are some guidelines on how to make a relationship last:



·               ·         Choose your partner carefully.




Too many people settle for less and then they try to get better upon it, which is often just too much work and bitterness in the long run. No one's perfect, but choose the BEST partner who sees the relationship going forward in the same direction.


  •          Value and Love your Partner.
If your partner does something special for you, thank him/her. Value his effort. Be grateful on whatever effort he makes that made you smile, it till help you maintain the relationship. There are those who are willing to do crazy efforts just to see you happy and you are lucky if you have that kind of person.


     
  •    Always say “I LOVE YOU.”


These simple words mean a lot to them. It’s a one way of reminding them they are still being valued and loved. Say “I love you,” especially when you mean it (and you should). These three words can put a smile in there face, brighten up a day and make your partner feel better.


  •        Be understanding and patient.

Learn to listen to he/she says without judgment. Your partner might have different opinion than you and tat is normal. You can’t make your partner accept your opinion if he/she does not want to. Be interested and sympathetic because you should care about your partner concerns. And even when you are away from each other, you have to be updated. It doesn't have to be a long talk always, just know what’s happening in them.


  •   Trust.

Never ever broke these! Building trust between you and your partner is essential in making the relationship to work and last. You have to be honest with your partner about your intention and actions. Don’t try to hide things because remember that the “Truth will always comes out”. It is better to tell him/her with the truth than to comfort them with your lies.


  •    Spend time together but don’t get too attached.

Couples must spend time together alone at least twice a week. Time is the most special element in one’s life. We all have 24 hours every single day. Keep in touch but not all the times. You are one. You are partners. But your relationship is not totally your life unless you are already married. You have a life together but it should not stop you from living a life of your own. Go out and bond with your friends. Visit your family. Experience and enjoy life without him sometimes. It WILL help both you and your relationship. Besides, have you ever heard the word “suffocating?” Many relationships die of that.




  •         Keep Laughing

Relationships face challenges and a shared sense of humor helps you deal with life when it gets difficult. Laughing can strengthen the relationship. It reminds both of you that there is more to life than the trials and problems you face as it helps you both forget all the troubles you faced.

  •       Don’t change your partner easily.

This one might be tough. Many couples try to change something about their partner that they don’t like which could harm the relationship. If you don’t like something about your partner, tell him/her about your concerns, but don’t force him/her to do something they don’t want. Try at least talk to them and it is up to them to take your advice or not, because if a person really want to change. They will change not because you want it but because you are the reason why he/she wants to change.



  •     When both commit mistakes, Apologize.

Shit happens. Everybody makes mistakes. Your heart should be bigger than your ego. Pride will get your relationship nowhere.  Apologize in a better way. When your partner does and he or she apologizes, don’t put all the blame on him/her instead analyze the situation and work things out in a positive way.


         ·            Don’t bottle things up, Work it out.

One of the best pieces of love advice that I can give to those who are confused and giving up is next in line is that, “You don’t quit just because you’re not happy at the moment. The whole point of being in a relationship is that you, at the very least, try to work it out.” That’s why it is a “relationship.” It’s a relationship between two people.  Every couple has their ups and downs. And when you encounter the down-side of it, you don’t give up just like that. You talk. You listen. You weigh things over. You work it out.

    

    Every relationship has its ups and downs. Love is a feeling that comes and goes depending on how you treat each other and solve your problems. These guidelines will help you work out relationships and build a strong foundation with your partner, work together through these hard times then your relationship will become stronger than ever. That's important.
Love will last, If only both sides know how to commit. J









Monday, 15 August 2011

How to be invisible in a terror professor?


Why do you want to be invisible to a terror professor? Do you want to coast along with the flow? Are you embarrassed because you wish not to have a terror professor?
There are many teachers who believe that they can earn a high opinion from students by keeping a stern profile and an up-tight behavior. However, such teachers fail to realize that the students will be afraid to approach them. They will never feel free to ask questions or raise doubts in the class, which defeats the whole purpose behind observing strictness with students. Harshness and strictness will only make the teacher or a professor less approachable for students. It is very important to be gentle and a little flexible with the students in order for them to be more approachable.

These are some tips on how to be invisible:
  • ·         Students have to be extra cautious and vigilant under such a teacher. He/she is like a disciplinarian, always keeping students on their toes.
  • ·         If you really want to be "invisible", sit in the front row and raise your hand to answer every question. After a week, the teacher will get sick of asking you and look for some students to answer his or her questions.
  • ·         Be prepared. So that even if it’s your turn to answer. He will not let you down and you won’t feel embarrassed.
  • ·         Always be present. Others try to make excuses for skipping classes, which harms their studies and affects their performance in the respective subject.
  • ·         Lastly, Pass your requirements on time. A strict teacher is very tough on students. He/she always insists on adhering to the deadlines. In this case he will not catch your attention.
Strictness of a teacher/professor can guarantee that students can finish their work on time and abide by the discipline. We may see them as bad or terror but it was just their way to help students to stand out. We may find them extremely difficult to love but they also have their soft side that we will surely love to.
It's not a bad thing though. Just participate.

Friday, 12 August 2011

Bienvenue sur mon Blog (Welcome To My Blog)


Hi everyone! Yes! I’m just a new blogger and I’m not that good into this actually. Anyway, thank you for glancing in my blog. I am really excited about interacting with all of you and this will be a challenging part for me. If you are checking in to this blog, I will be sharing a lot of thoughts and ideas concerning my blog. If you have any concerns or questions about Thinking Matters, please send me your questions and I will attempt to answer them or to offer some, hopefully, helpful advice.
Anyway, just a few background information on myself. I'm Katie, I spend my days mostly at school. I am a student of Adamson University. A Mass Communication major and hopefully will finish my studies with recognition. Technically speaking, it’s pretty hard being a college student but somewhat manageable with the help of loved ones. Maybe each one of us will experience this kind of hardships. We should always remember that there’s no such thing as “giving up”.
So, in this blog, I hope to guide you into simple ways to challenge your thinking skills so that you too will be able to do the things that you are afraid of and learn how to handle them in whatever situations. You will be challenged to change the way you think and the way that you behave to guide you in your decisions. This blog is also about finding your own way. We all think and learn in a different way. And you need to find what works best for you. You don't need to fit into a certain thing to be a successful one. And don't worry if you are not good in one thing. That just means you are better at something else. So focus on what you're interested in, and if you still can't decide, try getting some direct experience. I am looking forward to work with all of you.
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